Fair Weather Friend

Some people are kind and supportive only when everything is going well. Like they can only be present during the “sunny days.” But the moment you go through something real, even just one difficult day out of thirty, something quietly shifts. Suddenly, they become more distant, less patient. And when you finally open up or express how you feel, somehow you become the problem.

It hurts. Because the moment you need the most care and understanding is when some people decide to step away.

It makes you realize some only stay close to the version of you that’s always easy to handle.

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